Men, Women, and Marriage

             Marriage is something that is an important and essential part of life to many people in just about every part of the world—including in many cultures, religions, traditions, societies, and so on. Marriage is also something that many people value and have a goal to have it a part of their life. One important aspect of marriage is that it is meant to be between a man and a woman. This marriage is approved, authorized, and necessary because this is how it was meant to be. It has been seen this way for many years by the government, different cultures and religions, and the majority of the people in the world.

There are trends and tendencies, that are not universal, regarding the differences between men and women. Females tend to have better relational recall, be more verbal (as newborns), read emotions better, be emotionally expressive, and they are more civilized and cooperative. While, on the other hand, men tend to have greater upper body strength, better special orientation, are more assertive, and they are more competitive. These are just tendencies that have been seen and researched—each child is individual because everyone is different in many ways, not just if they are male or female. You cannot have one without the other because each role is important and it is central for the roles to be honored and upheld as they should be. Because of this there are many benefits of a marriage between a man and a woman.

Men and women are different in many ways and they were designed to be that way—distinctive and contrasting to each other. They were never meant to be the same, just as everyone, as an induvial, is different—in some way or another. They are each unique in their own way and they would not be able to do the things that they can if they were someone else. There is a reason for everything, including this. There are things that men are better and more capable of doing, while there are things that women are better able to do. Although, each is competent and qualified in different things and in various ways.

One way that they are different is in their strengths and abilities—there are things that men can do that women cannot and vice versa.  The things that men and women are strong in complement each other, making it so one does not overpower the other—and in a way, they equal each other out. Because of this, and other things, they are each able to bring out the best in each other.

Another way that they are different is in their perspectives—how they see and handle situations and other things that arise. Because of this, new things are brought into relationships by each person. There is no longer only one side being shown, instead there are others. Problems are also easier to be worked out because there is a new mindset that is brought in. I have heard from many people that marriage is a time of new learning and teaching because there is much to be learned from each spouse. Things of the world, the ability to see things from a new perspective, and the list goes on and on about what people can learn from each other. Everyone has a unique thinking and learning process, and many can benefit from it. It is important to keep your eyes open to all of the possibilities that learning experiences can bring. In my opinion, one of the most important things about a marriage is that the spouses build upon and complement each other. Men and women are not opposites, they each have a different role to play that is vital to the relationship, and that cannot be forgotten.